“Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.” — Psalm 51:10
The leaving
I grew up with candles, holy cards, and the language of faith. I also learned how holiness can be worn like a costume. When love is spoken but not lived, religion turns sharp. I didn’t stop believing in God; I stopped believing the people who claimed Him and withheld mercy. So I left. I studied, listened, and lived inside other rooms—Buddhism’s stillness, Judaism’s study, Islam’s devotion. I found beauty in each. I also found that ache I carried did not dissolve when I changed addresses.
The wandering
Distance can look like healing from far away. It felt safer to be the student of everything than the daughter of anything. I learned to sit in silence; I learned to respect other paths. And yet, when the house was quiet and the day was done, my heart reached for a name I did not want to say aloud: Jesus. Not a slogan. Not a brand. A person. A mercy.
The turning
My return wasn’t dramatic. No lightning, no altar call, no public vows. I came back the way you enter a dark room at midnight—hands out, careful, a little afraid of what I’d bump into. I started with psalms because they told the truth I recognized: praise and grief braided together. David didn’t pretend; he prayed. That gave me permission to stop pretending too.
What changed (and what didn’t)
I didn’t come back to prove anyone wrong. I came back because I needed a Savior more than I needed a story about myself. I still set boundaries. I still say no to control dressed as piety. I still believe God is not threatened by honest questions. But now I read the Gospels in the morning and I hear a voice that is not coercive. It is firm and kind. It calls me by name.
Grace did not erase my past; it reoriented my future.
Practice (1 minute)
- Light a candle.
- Read Psalm 51:10 once.
- Speak: “Lord, I am here. Make my heart clean and my spirit steady.”
Prayer
Jesus, I wandered and You stayed. I was hurt and You did not harden. Call me by the name You have always used for me. Teach me to come home without shame, to live simply, and to love honestly. Amen.
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